Reader Question:

How would i understand if my gf is “fun flirtcougar in your g” or if perhaps she doesn’t love me personally anymore?

-Colin B. (Virginia)

Specialist’s Solution:

Hey Colin,

Exactly what an appealing question. When we had been having a two-way dialogue, I would personally want to know for a lot more details. But because this is myself almost writing you a letter, i am going to need to use my creativity and cognoscente creativeness. I’m assuming both you and this girl are special. (if you’ren’t special, you then really do not reach stress about the amount of flirting she is doing.) OK, anytime we’ve established that two of you tend to be unique and your sweetheart is hugging, holding arms with, whispering to and giggling at every little thing the 10 best man pals say, after that “Houston, we’ve got a challenge.”

This is of flirting will be “behave like attracted to or wanting to bring in somebody, however for amusement versus with really serious motives.” Regardless if your own sweetheart does not plan on really generating aside with or fast asleep with among the men she flirts with, it is still hurtful to you personally – whatever the level of flirting really. It’s likely that, she doesn’t actually realize she actually is doing it. Therefore stay their down and inform the lady about how precisely it certainly makes you feel. If she listens and puts a stop to flirting together with other guys, subsequently she cares for you. If she goes on her enjoyable flirty means, then it’s quite possible she’s not ready to relax.

Thank you for speaking out,

Kara